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Snow!

2/22/2020

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​"Come now, and let us reason together, saith the LORD: though your sins be as scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they be red like crimson, they shall be as wool."  Isaiah 1: 18

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Delighting in God's "Perfect" Gifts

5/10/2019

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A few days ago, I was so encouraged and brightened by a verse that the LORD brought to mind.  The verse was James 1:17, which says:

"Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, and cometh down from the Father of lights, with whom is no variableness, neither shadow of turning."

This is a very familiar verse to me - one that I've had memorized for quite a while, yet never took much time to reflect on its meaning or apply it to my life.

It kind of sounds silly, but I have an idiosyncrasy for loving and paying attention to things that match, work out "just right", mental puzzle pieces that fit together and make sense, etc.  In general, I really like for things to be perfect - at least, as perfect as they can be in a fallen world - but I would not characterize myself as a "perfectionist", just someone who pays attention to little details and loves visual and mental patterns and connections.  Many times, I'll exclaim, "It's just perfect!!", after evaluating something/a situation that has just worked out very well, and wasn't necessarily planned out that way...  My day is instantly brightened!

Well, on that particular day, not but a minute after my idiosyncratic exclamation erupted from my lips, James 1:17 came to mind.  It suddenly occurred to me that God is the Giver of all of those little "perfect" gifts - each situation that comes together "just right"...each fun time my outfit just so "happens" to match my coffee mug or Bible case...each time something tricky, or time-consuming works out smoothly...each Sunday my fingers play through a difficult piano piece entirely, without completely flunking...each time a Bible verse is providentially brought to mind just at the exact moment it should - these are all reflections of God's perfection, love and sweet gifts He gives to His children.  What an uplifting way the LORD chooses to touch us - to shower individuals with little gifts that brighten our spirits and bring such joy in this journey of life!  He is not obligated by any means to encourage or bless us, but He so graciously does time and time again.  Take delight in knowing that this is one of the many ways the Father shows His undying love for His own.   All praise, glory and honor be to the Giver of Gifts, now and forever!  

So, I would encourage you today...  The next time something turns out just "perfect", thank God and stand in awe of His amazing perfection in orchestrating all things together for His glory!  

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Learning to Love...Unconditionally

4/10/2019

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1 John 4: 7, 8
​"Beloved, let us love one another: for love is of God; and every one that loveth is born of God, and knoweth God.  He that loveth not knoweth not God; for God is love."
Do you ever struggle with loving others unconditionally?  When a family member does something that really irritates you for the 3rd + time that day, do you respond in a loving way - like Jesus would - in patience and longsuffering?  What are you "known for"?  Does your family see you as gentle and gracious, or cranky and ugly?  When difficult life situations arise and you find yourself getting anxious, do you let your emotions dictate the way you respond to others, or turn to Christ in prayer to be able to respond in a gracious way?  What spiritual fruit are you producing - sweet, ripe, juicy fruit, or old, moldy, rotten fruit?

These are all questions I've been asking myself for many months...  As the oldest sibling of 9, I have had an incredible opportunity to watch my younger sisters and brothers grow and mature and help teach/train some of them up for the LORD.  With that title as "oldest sibling" though, there is a great responsibility to be a godly example of what a Christian is to be - in all aspects.  In some cases, the oldest one in a family has more of an influence on the younger ones than the parents themselves.  What a sobering thought and huge responsibility! 

About a year or so ago, the LORD opened my eyes to one of my major faults: not loving my siblings unconditionally, to be able to respond to frustrations in a loving, Christlike way.  The example I was setting forth was not the way Jesus would respond, nor was it the way I would want to be treated (Luke 6: 31).  Over the past few months, little by little, the LORD led me to Bible verses, quotes and book excerpts, which aided in learning  how to love in an unconditional way - overlooking minor irritations and faults in other people.  In the paragraphs below, I'm sharing what the LORD has graciously taught me, and because it is so close to my heart, I couldn't help but collect my thoughts together and write a post on this subject.  I cannot possibly cover all aspects of how one can show unconditional love towards others, since there is such variety in individual's walks in life, but here is a start. 

Why Should We Love Others?

God loved us first and sent His only Son to redeem a people for Himself.  No greater love has ever been shown here on earth.  If we are true Christ-followers, we will be known by the love we show to others out of the love we have for our Savior.

1 John 4: 9-11
"In this was manifested the love of God toward us, because that God sent his only begotten Son into the world, that we might live through him.  Herein is love, not that we loved God, but that he loved us, and sent his Son to be the propitiation for our sins,  Beloved, if God so loved us, we ought also to love one another." (emphasis added)

John 13: 34, 35
"A new commandment I give unto you, That ye love one another; as I have loved you, that ye also love one another.  By this shall all men know that ye are my disciples, if ye have love one to another."

What is Love?

Love is an action!  It is living in a way towards others as you would have them do to you (Luke 6: 31).
"Love is not a feeling.  It is an overmastering passion to help and bless and deliver and comfort and strengthen and give joy to others just as the Lord Jesus always did.
Here on earth we have the opportunity to do what the God of love does all the time, and to learn to abandon ourselves to loving, to giving, to seeking, and to saving others.  Not a lovely feeling of affection, or physical pleasure and satisfaction, but the extreme eternal ecstasy of creating happiness and good and blessed things for others to enjoy.  To cast ourselves down like the Brumbach Falls (Switzerland), in happy giving, asking for nothing in return except the joy of doing so.  When we really begin to learn and practice that lesson we shall begin to feel "at home" in the eternal world of selfless love.
It is not some feeling one waits for, nor some special person to evoke the love.  It is an attitude of will.  I will cast myself down in giving.  The lower I go the more love I am able to transmit from God to others, just like the Lord of love himself, who was not content until he found and took the lowest place in the universe."  -Hannah Hurnard, Hind's Feet on High Places
According to 1 Corinthians 13: 1-8, love:
  • Is longsuffering
  • Is kind
  • Is not proud, discontent or envious 
  • Does not boast or make a vain display of itself
  • Is not "inflated with vanity or pride" (according to Webster's Dictionary)
  • Does not behave indecently or unbecomingly
  • Is not selfish, but rather, selfless
  • Is not excited, made angry, roused or provoked
  • Thinks no evil
  • Rejoices not in sin, but rather, rejoices in truth
  • Bears all things - is patient in all things
  • Trusts and has faith in all things
  • Hopes in all things - has confidence, which produces joy and pleasure in life
  • Endures all things - suffers without resistance
  • Never fails
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How Do We Love Unconditionally?

This is often the most difficult part!  We know the why, but not exactly the how behind these truths found in God's Word.  There is a helpful acronym I heard a little while ago from a conference speaker, which spells out HEART - a perfect reminder of how love is shown to others.

H - Humble
E - Encouraging
A - Available
R - Reliable
T - Tender
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"1.  The first characteristic of true love is humility: the pouring of oneself down lower and lower in self-effacement and self-denial.  The message of running water always is, 'Go lower. Find the lowest place.  That is the only way to true fulfillment.'
2.  The next characteristic of love is giving.  The poured-out life gives life and power to others.  The more love gives, the more it fulfills itself.  'For it is Love's prerogative to GIVE and GIVE and GIVE.'
3.  The third characteristic of love is service.  The Brumbach Falls (Switzerland), in the act of giving themselves, serve the whole valley and far beyond it.  The water means a supply of irrigation, electricity, and light for many, many homes, gardens, and orchards.  To be utterly abandoned to the goal of giving oneself to others, and going down lower, is the joy and ecstasy of love."  -Hannah Hurnard, Hind's Feet on High Places

​There are a few practical ways I've learned that helps me to show love to others - particularly my siblings.  Here are some of them:
  1. Smile - This is something so simple and uncomplicated, but shows kindness and appreciation to them.
  2. Encourage - If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say it at all.  In fact, point out their good character qualities in a way that helps them to keep pressing on for Christ's sake.  The goal here is not to "puff" them up, so to speak, but to bless and encourage for their eternal benefit.  Try to come up with as many different things to thank them for as you can...exhibit a spirit of thankfulness and gratitude.  This is even more crucial to do with brothers!  Ephesians 4: 29 - "Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers."
  3. Serve - When was the last time you offered to do the dishes for a sibling or Mom when it was "their turn"?  Are you actively looking for ways to take initiative to bless your family members by cleaning up messes, or making meals before you are asked to?  Think about the joy that could come if you made the kitchen spotless while the rest of the family is working on other projects!  How blessed they would be to come in and find it CLEAN!  And you know what?  You may not even get acknowledged by others for doing so, but the LORD knows, and if you do it with a happy heart, He will bless you!  The Bible says in Psalm 100: 2 - "Serve the LORD with gladness: come before his presence with singing."  Sing while you work and your spirit will be joyful!
  4. Listen - Give others your full, undivided attention when they speak.  Younger children especially love it when older ones look them in the eyes, smile and listen with interest!  This is a huge way to show you love and care about them.  Likewise, if you don't listen or care about what they have to say, you are showing them that you care only about yourself and your needs.  
  5. Invest - My little siblings love to help me, but because they are young, they often can't get the work done in a timely fashion...like I could.  I have a choice to make: be selfish, brush them off and do it myself, or be selfless and teach them so they can do it, too.  Which one has eternal value??  I love the verse in Matthew 19: 14, which says, "Suffer little children, and forbid them not, to come unto me: for of such is the kingdom of heaven."  
  6. Forgive and forget - Don't hold a grudge against others!  Think about all of the times you have done something irritating or hurtful to others...did you want to be forgiven?  We must be willing and ready to forgive every little offence that someone could do to us, like Jesus.  If there is anyone who shouldn't have forgiven sin, it is  Jesus, yet He in His mercy, forgave me and continues to forgive and forget, forgive and forget, continually.  Also, remember Matthew 6: 14, 15 - "For if ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you:  But if ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses."
  7. Pray for others - We all need prayer in this Christian walk!  Pray for others in the way you would want others to pray for you.  Philippians 1: 3, 4 - "I thank my God upon every remembrance of you,  Always in every prayer of mine for you all making request with joy,"​

​One last thing I want to mention is, remember to give thanks for the dear people you rub shoulders with day in and day out.  Remember that God has placed you in the family and position that you are in for a specific purpose.  "Be content with such things as ye have" (Heb. 13: 5), because our sovereign LORD is orchestrating "all things together for good" (Rom. 8: 28), and has you exactly where He wants you!  Take heart that God will never leave or forsake you - no matter what - and trust in Him alone.  God is the LORD of love and is the ultimate example we have to follow...seek His face and He will guide you by His loving hand.  
I want to encourage you to look for ways to show unconditional love to the people you might struggle with, in particular.  Ask the LORD to help you to love like Jesus, so others will see Him through you.  The next time your flesh wants to respond harshly to conflict, stop and ask yourself, "how would Jesus respond?"  There is a reason that the first mentioned fruit of the spirit, is love.  It is the most important, most difficult to learn, most rewarding character quality to possess.  1 Corinthians 13: 13 says, "And now abideth faith, hope, charity, these three; but the greatest of these is charity." 

May the LORD bless you as you strive to love others in a Christlike way!
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July 4th Fireworks

7/8/2018

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I hope you all had a memorable Independence Day complete with sparklers, fireworks and maybe even Pop-Its! ; )  Here are a few of my favorite photos from the evening.
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Zinnia flowers...  One of our Creator's most beautiful signs of Summer.

6/16/2018

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"O LORD, how manifold are thy works! in wisdom hast thou made them all: the earth is full of thy riches."  Psalm 104: 24
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Photo Session // Sibling Portraits - Asher

5/31/2018

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My youngest brother turned 1 year old recently, so I decided to dress him up as a farmer boy and conduct his first photo shoot!  He was a complete natural and very photogenic, which made working with him so much fun!  Isn't he just the most adorable little boy??!!  Just had to share a few of my favorite shots... 
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{My favorite action picture!}
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{S w e e t!}
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{Cuter  than a bug!}
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Springtime Reflections on God's Goodness

4/3/2018

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This current season, through which we are passing, is a beautiful time to reflect on the goodness of our Creator.  The cold winter months have gone and spring has arrived, bringing new life and freshness to the earth.  Although seasons come and go quickly and the weather is always changing, our LORD Who created the earth and it's weather is immutable - never changing.  He is a steadfast and sure foundation for all His creation to trust in and will sustain us by His sovereign power.  God promises to those who trust and believe in His Son, Jesus Christ: "I will never leave thee, nor forsake thee."  Amidst life's challenges, this promise brings such peace and assurance that only Christ can give.  Life will be filled with blessings and trials, which can feel much like a roller-coaster ride and quite unstable at times, but through all of this, we can lean on God - our Rock and Deliverer.  We can call upon His name for strength to endure and trust Him no matter what.  The following hymn is one of my favorites, and is fitting to meditate on through all seasons of life...  May God Bless Your Day!

Praise to the Lord, the Almighty

Words by: Joachim Neander; Catherine Winkworth

Praise to the Lord, the Almighty, the King of creation!
O my soul, praise Him, for He is thy health and salvation!
All ye who hear, now to His temple draw near;
Praise Him in glad adoration!

Praise to the Lord, who o'er all things so wondrously reigneth,
Shelters thee under His wings, yea, so gently sustaineth!
Hast thou not seen how thy desires e'er have been
Granted in what He ordaineth?

Praise to the Lord, who doth prosper thy work and defend thee;
Surely His goodness and mercy here daily attend thee.
Ponder anew what the Almighty can do
If with His love He befriend thee.

Praise to the Lord, O let all that is in me adore Him!
All that hath life and breath, come now with praises before Him.
Let the Amen sound from His people again;
Gladly for aye we adore Him!
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"Home is where Mom is"

3/28/2018

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{My mom's favorite mug, which she drinks coffee from every morning...she just so happened to have tea on this particular morning when I snapped the picture.}
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Rustic Letters

1/9/2018

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I love photography, but more specifically, still life photography.  Actually, to break it down even further, I love photographing rustic/antiqued items - things that have history behind them!

Our family lives in a 100 year old renovated farmhouse in the country.  When we began renovating it 5 years ago, we discovered some old letters tucked away in a wall near one of the old closets.  How thrilled we were to find these!  While there is nothing particularly special about the letter content, everyone enjoyed reading them and picturing what times were like back in 1927. 

Anyway, while the letters were out a little while ago, I decided to take the opportunity to have a little fun and photograph them.
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Sweetness Multiplied!

10/9/2017

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Everyone knows babies are simply adorable almost all of the time.....but.....their sweetness is multiplied when they're sleeping!!  Just melts my heart!

My little brother, Asher, loves to jump in his bouncy seat and sometimes he gets so tired, that he conveniently bounces himself to sleep.  From there, we pick him up and put in his crib!
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I just LOVE babies!!
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